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الإمامُ عليٌّ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ): خالِطوا النّاسَ مُخالَطَةً إن مِتُّم مَعَها بَكَوا عَلَيكُم ، وإن عِشتُم (غِبتُم) حَنُّوا إلَيكُم.

Mingle amongst people in such a way that when you die they should weep for you, and when you are alive, they should long for you
Amir al-Mu'minin Imām ‘Alī ibn Abī Tālib (a.s.)
Nahj al-Balagha, Saying 10; Mizan ul Hikmah, page No. 881

الإمامُ عليٌّ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ) ـ كانَ يَقولُ ـ: لِيَجتَمِعْ في قَلبِكَ الافتِقارُ إلَى النّاسِ ، والاستِغناءُ عَنهُم، يَكونُ افتِقارُكَ إلَيهِم‏في لينِ‏كَلامِكَ وحُسنِ بِشرِكَ،ويَكونُ استِغناؤكَ عَنهُم في نَزاهَةِ عِرضِكَ وبَقاءِ عِزِّكَ.

Let your heart include both need for people as well as needlessness of them – your need for them being in order to speak kindly words to them and to share your joy with them, and your needlessness of them being in order to maintain your integrity and to preserve your self-respect
Amir al-Mu'minin Imām ‘Alī ibn Abī Tālib (a.s.)
Ma`ani al-Akhbar, p. 267, no. 1; Mizan ul Hikmah, page No. 881

الإمامُ الباقرُ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ): صَلاحُ شَأنِ‏النّاسِ التَّعايُشُ والتّعاشُرُ مِل‏ءَ مِكيالٍ: ثُلثاهُ فِطَنٌ ، وثُلثٌ تَغافُلٌ.

The proper way to interact with people is through coexistence and close cooperation according to a set measure, two thirds of which are to know each other very well and a third of which is to feign ignorance of each other’ s faults.
Imām Muhammad ibn ‘Alī al-Baqir (a.s.)
Bihar al-Anwar, v. 74, p. 167, no. 34; Mizan ul Hikmah, page No. 881

الإمامُ عليٌّ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ) ـ في وَصِيَّتِـهِ لاِبنِهِ الحَسَنِ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ) ـ: لا يَكُن أهلُكَ أشقَى الخَلقِ بِكَ .

Let your family not become the most miserable of people because of you
Amir al-Mu'minin Imām ‘Alī ibn Abī Tālib (a.s.)
Nahj al-Balagha, Letter 31; Mizan ul Hikmah, page No. 881

الإمامُ الصّادقُ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ): إنَّ المَرءَ يَحتاجُ في مَنزِلِهِ وعِيالِهِ إلى ثَلاثِ خِلالٍ يَتَكَلَّفُها وإن لَم يَكُن في طَبعِهِ ذلكَ: مُعاشَرَةٍ جَميلَةٍ ، وسَعَةٍ بتَقديرٍ ، وغَيرَةٍ بتَحَصُّنٍ.

Verily man needs to adopt three characteristics with respect to his household and his family, even if these are not naturally present within him pleasant social interaction, the capacity to live with ampleness through evaluation, and possessiveness through protectiveness
Imām Ja'far ibn Muhammad al-Sādiq (a.s.)
Bihar al-Anwar, v. 78, p. 236, no. 63; Mizan ul Hikmah, page No. 881

رسولُ اللهِ‏ِ (صَلَّيَ اللهُ عَلَيهِ وَ آلِهِ): أحسِنْ مُصاحَبَةَ مَن صاحَبَكَ تَكُن مُسلِماً.

Associate well with one who associates with you and you will be considered a Muslim
Holy Prophet Muhammad al Mustafā (s.a.w.w.)
Amali al-Saduq, p. 168, no. 13; Mizan ul Hikmah, page No. 882

الإمامُ عليٌّ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ): خالِطوا النّاسَ بألسِنَتِكُم وأجسادِكُم ، وزايِلوهُم بِقُلوبِكُم وأعمالِكُم.

Interact with people with the use of your tongues and your bodies, and part from them with your hearts and your actions
Amir al-Mu'minin Imām ‘Alī ibn Abī Tālib (a.s.)
Ghurar al-Hikam, no. 5071; Mizan ul Hikmah, page No. 882

الإمامُ عليٌّ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ): اُبذُلْ لأِخيكَ دَمَكَ ومالَكَ ، ولِعَدُوِّكَ عَدلَكَ وإنصافَكَ ، ولِلعامَّةِ بِشرَكَ وإحسانَكَ.

For your brother, offer your blood and your wealth, for your enemy your justice and fairness, and for people in general your joy and your good favour
Amir al-Mu'minin Imām ‘Alī ibn Abī Tālib (a.s.)
Bihar al-Anwar, v. 78, p. 50, no. 76; Mizan ul Hikmah, page No. 882

الإمامُ عليٌّ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ): ألزِم نَفسَكَ التَّوَدُّدَ ، وصَبِّر على مُؤَناتِ النّاسِ نَفسَكَ .

Obligate yourself to adopt affection, and make yourself tolerate the encumbrances of people
Amir al-Mu'minin Imām ‘Alī ibn Abī Tālib (a.s.)
Bihar al-Anwar, v. 74, p. 175, no. 6; Mizan ul Hikmah, page No. 882

الإمامُ عليٌّ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ): مَن أسرَعَ إلَى النّاسِ بما يَكرَهونَ قالوا فيهِ ما لا يَعلَمونَ .

He who is quick to criticize people in a manner that they dislike, they will talk about him saying that which they do not know.
Amir al-Mu'minin Imām ‘Alī ibn Abī Tālib (a.s.)
Bihar al-Anwar, v. 75, p. 151, no. 17; Mizan ul Hikmah, page No. 882

الإمامُ الحسنُ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ): صاحِبِ النّاسَ مِثلَ ما تُحِبُّ أن يُصاحِبوكَ بِهِ .

Associate with people the way you would like them to associate with you.
Imām Hasan ibn ‘Alī ibn Abī Tālib (a.s.)
A`alam al-Din, p. 297; Mizan ul Hikmah, page No. 882

الإمامُ الصّادقُ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ): مُجامَلَةُ النّاسِ ثُلثُ العَقلِ .

Amicableness towards people is a third of intellect
Imām Ja'far ibn Muhammad al-Sādiq (a.s.)
Tuhaf al-`Uqoul, no. 366; Mizan ul Hikmah, page No. 882

الإمامُ الكاظمُ (عَلَيهِ الّسَلامُ): التَّوَدُّدُ إلَى‏النّاسِ نِصفُ العَقلِ.

Affection towards people is half of intellect
Imām Mūsā ibn Ja‘far al-Kāżim (a.s.)
Tuhaf al-`Uqoul, no. 403; Mizan ul Hikmah, page No. 883