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Beware! Abstain from angering the parents. The fragrance of Paradise is perceived even at a distance of a thousand years, but those who are disobedient to parents and those who cut off ties with relatives will not be able to smell it.
Holy Prophet Muhammad al Mustafā (s.a.w.w.)
Greater Sins Vol 1, part 3, page 135; Wasaelush Shia

One who displeases the parents, (it is as if) he has displeased Allah. One who angers both his parents (it is as if) he has angered Allah."Elsewhere, it is mentioned, “One who hurts his parents, hurts me and one who hurts me has hurt Allah. And the one who hurts Allah is accursed.”
Holy Prophet Muhammad al Mustafā (s.a.w.w.)
Greater Sins Vol 1, part 3, page 135; Mustadrakul Wasael

Allah will not speak to three kinds of people on the Day of Qiyamat. Neither will He have mercy upon them, nor will He purify their sins. There is for them a horrible chastisement. The three types of people are the believers in destiny, the drunkards and those who disobeyed their parents.
Holy Prophet Muhammad al Mustafā (s.a.w.w.)
Greater Sins Vol 1, part 3, page 135; Al Kafi

One who is blessed with parents but does not fulfill their (his parent’s) rights will not be forgiven (his sins) by Allah.
Archangel Gabriel (a.s.)
Greater Sins Vol 1, part 3, page 136; Behaarul Anwaar

Accursed, Accursed is the one who beats his parents. Accursed is the one who distresses his parents
Imām Ja'far ibn Muhammad al-Sādiq (a.s.)
Greater Sins Vol 1, part 3, page 136; Mustadrak

Allah will not accept the Namaz of the person who stares angrily at his parents. Even though they (parents) may be unjust.
Imām Ja'far ibn Muhammad al-Sādiq (a.s.)
Greater Sins Vol 1, part 3, page 136

A Young man is interceeded by the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.) A young man was on his deathbed when the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) came, sat near him, and told him to recite two kalimas (Shahadatain). But the youth could not speak. The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) enquired if his mother was present? A woman sitting near his head said, “Yes, I am his mother.” The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) asked, “Are your displeased with him?” ‘Yes, O Prophet (s.a.w.s.), we have not spoken to each other since the last six years.’ The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) asked this woman to forgive her son. Thus at the Prophet’s instance she forgave his mistakes and was reconciled. At once the young man was able to recite the Kalima-e-Shahadat. The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) asked him, “What do you see, at this moment.” “ O Prophet of Allah a dark and smelly man has got hold of me and is not leaving me.” The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) told him to recite the following dua, “Ya man Yaqbalul yaseera wa y’afo ‘Anil Katheera Iqbal minnil Yaseera Wa ‘Aafo ‘Annil Katheera.” Then asked, “Now what do you see?” He replied, “A fair complexioned man, handsome and fragrant, is moving towards me.” The Holy Prophet said, “Keep repeating this dua.” When the youth repeated this dua he said “O Prophet of Allah (s.a.w.s.) both of them have disappeared from my sight.” After this the face of the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) was illuminated with joy. He said, “O Allah forgive the sins of this young man.” Then the youth passed away.
Holy Prophet Muhammad al Mustafā (s.a.w.w.)
Greater Sins Vol 1, part 3, page 137; Behaarul Anwaar

When the Imam (a.s.) was asked to explain the meaning of the term “Bil Waledaine Ehsana” (and goodness to your parents), he said, “Be good to your parents and if they are in need of something, procure it for them before they ask for it.” Then the meaning of the words, “Taqullahuma Qualan Kareema” (speak to them a generous word) was explained by the Imam (a.s.) “If the parents beat you, say ‘May Allah forgive you’. The phrase ‘Wakhfiz Lahuma’ (and make yourself submissively gentle to them) is elaborated by the Imam (a.s.): “Do not look at them with distaste. Do not raise your voice above theirs. When you walk with them do not precede them. When you go to a gathering, do not sit before they do. Never keep your hand above theirs (while giving them something).”
Infallible Imam (a.s)
Greater Sins Vol 1, part 3, page 138

narrates that a young man presented himself to the Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) and said that he wanted to participate in Jehad. The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) told him: “Certainly, go for Jehad in the way of Allah. If your are killed you will be alive near Allah and be provided sustenance from Him. The recompense for your sacrifice would be with Allah. If you return alive your sins would be washed off as if your were a newborn child.” This man said: “O Prophet of Allah, my parents are alive and they are aged and have great expectations from me. They do not like me to be away from them.” The Holy Prophet (s.a.w.s.) said: “If that is so, then stay behind to serve your parents. By Allah in whose hands is my life, to serve parents for a day and night is equal to a year of Jehad.”
Imām Ja'far ibn Muhammad al-Sādiq (a.s.)
Greater Sins Vol 1, part 3, page 139

Acquire your place in Heaven by serving your parents. If you are guilty of ‘Aaq’ then make Hell your abode.
Holy Prophet Muhammad al Mustafā (s.a.w.w.)
Greater Sins Vol 1, part 3, page 139